What do we do when our children cut us off and don’t want to speak or communicate to us (not even text to us!)!
I want to scream – but realize that would not help this . . . but I still want to SCREAM!
Scream .. WHY?! . . . because I’ve done nothing that deserves this . . .. to withhold communication with me is a punishment, does not feel like love, and is a message that says “you and I don’t matter” . This is untrue BTW. You and I Matter! I’ve not been prefect, just human, not inappropriate whatsoever . . . but . . . .. I want to stay connected to you . . . yes please . . . . . . .. .I just simply love you more than anything. . . . . .
and I will always want to Scream. . . . until you chose to come back to me. . . .
About Sandy
I was married at age 19 and had my son when I was 24 years old. When he was nearly 2 years old I decided to leave my husband. We had nothing in common. I was so lonely. He was an avid hunter and fisherman and while I tried to get into hunting and fishing it just was not my thing. While I was thrilled to be a mom, I spent many lonely weekends with my son.
Ironically when I separated from my husband, my husband fought for sole custody and moved my son 1,000 miles away from me. I paid child support and found ways to be with my son throughout the years. We developed a wonderful relationship and he grew into a responsible young man.
When he was 26 years old his grandfather passed away and he decided to cut me out of his life . . . I set up this website to find some type of solace and speak to my son . . .
Silence Outloud 