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About Sandy

I was married at age 19 and had my son when I was 24 years old. When he was nearly 2 years old I decided to leave my husband. We had nothing in common. I was so lonely. He was an avid hunter and fisherman and while I tried to get into hunting and fishing it just was not my thing. While I was thrilled to be a mom, I spent many lonely weekends with my son. Ironically when I separated from my husband, my husband fought for sole custody and moved my son 1,000 miles away from me. I paid child support and found ways to be with my son throughout the years. We developed a wonderful relationship and he grew into a responsible young man. When he was 26 years old his grandfather passed away and he decided to cut me out of his life . . . I set up this website to find some type of solace and speak to my son . . .

Typical Days

Posted on January 29, 2017 by Sandy

Originally posted on Parents separated from adult children:
Mondays are rough.  So are the rest of the days in a week, but Mondays are especially quiet workdays for me.  I often find my thoughts wandering to my missing children.  I…

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Hi Josh

Posted on January 29, 2017 by Sandy

I’ve not contacted you since March of 2015. Not because I don’t love you. Because I do love you and you told me if I loved you I’d not contact you anymore. I love you, Mom

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Still

Posted on January 29, 2017 by Sandy

I’m still hurting . . . Josh cut me out of his life around August of 2011. I have to say I thought it was just a simple misunderstanding and I tried to reach out many times. All times where … Continue reading →

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Spiraling up or down?

Posted on December 3, 2014 by Sandy

Spiraling up or down?.

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Spiraling up or down?

Posted on December 3, 2014 by Sandy

When my son was born (I was 24 years old), I felt, for the first time… unconditional love.  I had him at home with no drugs and the birthing process was “intense”… 9 hours and at least 80 pushes (I’m … Continue reading →

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Nearly Two Years have Passed

Posted on November 30, 2014 by Sandy

Nearly Two Years have Passed.

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Nearly Two Years have Passed

Posted on November 30, 2014 by Sandy

and he still is angry with me and does not have any space for reconciliation or forgiveness.  His texts are hateful. I still love him. I’m working on turning this grief to something very powerful and positive in my life . … Continue reading →

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I Miss You

Posted on December 31, 2012 by Sandy

I just really, really, really miss you and hope you are ok.   Love, Mom

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Missing Adult Children Update

Posted on December 30, 2012 by Sandy

Missing Adult Children Update.

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Being Ignored

Posted on December 22, 2012 by Sandy

If feels lonely and inhumane to be ignored.  It feels even worse that you have accused me of untruthful things.  You are my own flesh and blood – I gave you life and now you are taking mine away. I … Continue reading →

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