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About Sandy

I was married at age 19 and had my son when I was 24 years old. When he was nearly 2 years old I decided to leave my husband. We had nothing in common. I was so lonely. He was an avid hunter and fisherman and while I tried to get into hunting and fishing it just was not my thing. While I was thrilled to be a mom, I spent many lonely weekends with my son. Ironically when I separated from my husband, my husband fought for sole custody and moved my son 1,000 miles away from me. I paid child support and found ways to be with my son throughout the years. We developed a wonderful relationship and he grew into a responsible young man. When he was 26 years old his grandfather passed away and he decided to cut me out of his life . . . I set up this website to find some type of solace and speak to my son . . .

Unbirth – is this a word?

Is there a way to do this?  Please help me if there is! If I could just go back back to before he was born I would not know the pain of his silence.  Please help me if you know … Continue reading

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clues…

When your dad and I separated – you almost age 2 – you were my sole responsibility and you depended on me solely for survival and emotional support.  Which I gave you unconditionally. I made a plan to make my life … Continue reading

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busy, forgetful or numb

I have not posted here for a while. Yes, I’ve been busy, but that’s the story of my life.  I do find things to keep me busy.  My career, my home, reading, exercising, cooking, cleaning, family, friends. . . I … Continue reading

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In Shock

Some days I’m ok.  I don’t feel sad that you don’t talk to me.  Don’t feel weepy.  In fact I have healthy and happy thoughts. Do wonder how you are and what you are doing and how you are feeling. … Continue reading

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Leap Day

Leap Day.

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In Case You Did not Know

In Case You Did not Know.

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I think of you everyday

I think of you everyday.

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Silent Epidemic

Silent Epidemic.

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I want to scream!

I want to scream!.

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Silent Epidemic

This is an interesting link http://www.estrangedparentsofadultchildren.com/Site/Welcome.html

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